

So basically, she doesn't understand at all why I'm mad. These couple pranks are sure to keep your lives together so much spicier. She calls me back a few times, saying shes sorry and blah blah, and, being incredibly pissedĪt the moment, I tell her I don't want to talk and I hang up. This is going to scare the shit out of her as she would think someone has murdered you. She might withdraw, not necessarily to break up but to also get space and to. You can leave the door open and lie in your bathroom or any floor with fake blood spread all over. This is an obvious sign since women make more of an effort to keep in touch with men, on a daily basis, than men do. After about 10 minutes her friend (who apparently had hung up) came back on the phone and saidĪnd I slowly start to become angry, and without saying anything, I hang up the phone. To play this prank perfectly, you have to set her up by asking her to visit your home when you are alone. My girlfriend starts crying and I try and comfort her, trying to figure out if this is one big joke in the process. Would be great to somehow get this resolved in the next month so I can pay my first bill. The system responds saying I need to use the email address I provided when signing up for home internet service. Hmm, lets see if any of the following are funny: 1. They keep asking me to try signing up using a different email address which doesn’t work. So basically, she doesn't understand at all why I'm mad. Then shit starts getting really weird, she calls my girlfriend a stupid bitch and says "its all her fault" and threatens to cut her self. at the moment, I tell her I don't want to talk and I hang up. (I'm on the phone on mute the whole time, btw.) He told me that he was just pranking me and that I need to chill out. Out of nowhere, he asks if it’s OK if we take a break for a month. My boyfriend came over last night, and we were just watching Netflix in my room. We both have different ideas on what we consider a prank. I tell my girlfriend what just happened, she calls her, shes still crying, and my girlfriend asks if what she said to me was true, she denies it at first, but then admits it and starts crying even more. My boyfriend is quite childish, and he likes to prank me. For example, if your sister has a partner, switch their name to yours in her contact list.

When she's distracted, break into her phone and switch all of the contact names in her phone. For this prank, you'll have to be able to swipe your sister's phone for a while. So then, I figure its a joke, and I continue to keep asking if it is, she starts crying and says she "feels so stupid." Pull a switch-a-roo with your sister's contacts. I start getting weirded out, and I tell her I'll call her back, I call my girlfriend and I tell her what just happened, asking 3 times if this is a joke, she denies it, and she INSISTS I call her back so I don't make her feel bad, so I do and then after a few minutes she asks me this: If that’s not the case, you have tough decisions to make.So, my girlfriend's friend calls me up, and after a a few minutes tells me she has a "really big crush" on me, and how she "thinks about me every night." What I’m hoping is that this is a total one-off, a complete mistake, that she’s never made similar choices in the past, and that she’s very apologetic.

Has she shown signs of finding other people’s real fear funny before? How does she usually perceive your mental illnesses and does she generally provide meaningful support? Does she have a habit of disregarding the needs of others or failing to empathize or understand the impact of her choices on the people around her? You don’t need to provide answers to these, but you should use them as a starting point for considering whether she’s a partner you can trust and feel safe with. When you told her (as I’m assuming you did) how scared and upset you were, how triggering her “prank” was to your panic disorder and anxiety, how totally unacceptable this was and how you needed nothing like it to ever happen again for any reason, how did she respond? Did she take it seriously? Did she acknowledge that her choice was cruel and why, apologize sincerely, and promise to never do it again? Did she take steps to care for you as you sorted out your anxiety response? Anything less would be a sign to back away from this relationship immediately.Īdditionally, I’d be interested in whether this mean, selfish streak has showed up before. Absolutely not out of line in being very upset, but I’m interested in what happened next.
